
Jaye Gaff
- 3 days ago
- 2 min
Comparing
I don’t understand comparisons. Unless it’s saying “I prefer cherries to blueberries.” But I keep seeing these things on social media...

Jaye Gaff
- Aug 1
- 2 min
The ache
I randomly found this post in my drafts folder and have decided to publish it. I may not always feel this way but, sometimes, it’s a nice...

Jaye Gaff
- Jul 25
- 3 min
on marriage
Husband and I got married on our five year dating anniversary. It wasn’t that the date was entirely sentimental to us — all we did on...

Jaye Gaff
- Jul 22
- 2 min
Crier
I’m not much of a crier. Or, I wasn’t much of a crier until I was in my 3rd trimester of pregnancy and I started crying over episodes of...

Jaye Gaff
- Jul 21
- 5 min
Hating Your Body
My hatred of who I was and what I looked like came from my family and started from a very young age. I was very, very skinny. My mother...

Jaye Gaff
- Jul 18
- 2 min
Parenting & the “I Hate You”
Once upon a time I surprised my child with a trip to go get a second piercing in her ear. I cooked. I cleaned. I made it nice. A few...

Jaye Gaff
- Jul 11
- 3 min
I have a confession
When people started complaining that petrol was $2 a litre I rolled my eyes. Because I honestly believed you could just put $10 in your...

Jaye Gaff
- Jul 4
- 2 min
everybody hurts
I recently had a meltdown, or epiphany, or both, at work where I realised *all* I had done that day was search for articles and social...

Jaye Gaff
- Jun 13
- 3 min
Shit I can’t do
I am pretty self-sufficient in the sense that I can do things for myself. I just refuse to. I’ve decided life is hard enough as it is and...